tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5646309648750062083.post406259224808828402..comments2023-01-14T12:45:39.811-07:00Comments on Polishing The Double Wide Turd: Whose Life Is It, Anyway?Spoiled City Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03404010231698118835noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5646309648750062083.post-48245509378321378212014-03-31T16:59:28.233-06:002014-03-31T16:59:28.233-06:00I often state that I live my live vicariously thro...I often state that I live my live vicariously through others. I love reading blogs! I have asked myself the same questions-why and why am I not out doing all of the things I admire that others do. I could give you a litany of reasons, to others they would only be perceived as excuses. <br /><br />I appreciate your writing. I am so sorry for loss (your father and your cherished dog). I often joke that "my" dog is our 4th child. He means that much to me. I hope you have had time to heal.<br /><br />I believe lack of vision, fear of change, fear of the unknown, fear of failure and than fear that my kids won't adjust or I will let them down, all keep me from choosing to live the life I thought I was destined to live. My reality is that I simply work so darn much to support our family that I am afraid I live to work. I can't figure out how to get out of this loop (with a 11 yr old, 10 year old and nearly 5 year old). I am the primary earner while my husband is the parent home during the day. Your blog gives me respite that others are doing and planing and taking action. And someday I too shall have your courage. <br /><br />Thanks for your writing! GabriellaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com